Standing Up to Silos & Spirituality in the Workplace


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A new subscriber recently shared that one challenge she faces at work is navigating departmental silos, and it really resonated with me. Why does this seem to be a problem everywhere? We’re discussing it below, along with something that’s been on my mind since attending Harvard’s Leadership & Happiness Symposium a couple of weeks ago (I promise I’ll stop talking about it eventually).

Don’t forget, we’re also gearing up to welcome Brad Stulberg for a fireside chat on August 1st. I can’t wait and I hope to see some of you there. We’re even offering a special membership deal for the Brad stans among you (feel free to pass it on!):

Now—enjoy this week’s edition of The Murmuration!

Each week, we share an applied tip or did-you-know to help you build knowledge and hone essential skills that help you kick butt at work and in life.

Standing Up to Silos

Show me a company that hasn’t dealt with silos, and I’ll show you a company with only one employee. Seriously! Even Jeff and I sometimes fail to share information as much as we should. As companies and teams grow, communicating and collaborating across emerging groups inevitably becomes more challenging. One oft-quoted stat says that 39% of employees believe there isn’t enough collaboration between teams in their organizations. Atlassian’s 2024 State of Teams report highlights this issue: “50% of knowledge workers have worked on a project and only later found out that another team was working on the same thing.” DOH!

Stats aside, we’ve all been there at some point—no one seems to be talking to each other, ten teams are creating ten different docs with the same info, and the inefficiency of it all is frustrating as hell. While some problems might be structural or cultural and beyond your control, as a middle manager, there are still things you can do to drive positive change at the individual and team levels.

Create Individual Connections

People communicate and collaborate more effectively when they know and like each other. Make it a point to create connections for yourself and your team.

Build a Shadow Network

Identify people at your level in relevant teams, reach out, and establish a regular cadence of checking in and getting to know each other. I call this a “shadow network,” but there’s nothing nefarious about it. You don’t need to wait for your manager to create these connections for you. Consider organizing a regular group meeting at your level to share information and build relationships across multiple teams.

Create a Buddy System

Work closely with a specific team and still feel siloed? Collaborate with the team leader to match cross-team pairs, giving everyone a go-to person for questions and better understanding each other’s work.

Organize Structured Activities at Shared Social Events

At many company-wide or cross-functional social events, teams still tend to cluster together. Work with organizers to dedicate even just a short period to an activity that intentionally mixes things up, providing a structured way to get to know people on other teams.

Implement a Shadowing Program

Develop a program where employees spend time observing the work of different departments. It doesn’t need to be a full-on rotational program—even just sitting in on a meeting can be beneficial. Shadowing helps employees understand other teams' challenges and processes, fostering empathy and collaboration across the organization.

Promote Cross-Functional Mentorship

Jeff has shared with me that one of the most impactful mentorship experiences he’s ever had was with a leader from a completely different department. Encouraging cross-functional mentorship aids in knowledge sharing, builds a deeper understanding of various functions within the company, and broadens individual perspectives and skill sets.

Think About the System

As a leader, it’s also your job to zoom out and think about how you can broker and facilitate communication and collaboration at a higher level.

Map the Ecosystem

Do you have a clear picture of how your team relates to and interacts with other teams? Create a map that describes each team’s purpose and function, what information they need, and what information they have and can share. Work on this activity with your team so everyone is actively considering and contributing.

Collaborate on Norms, Procedures, and Tools

You might already have norms and standards within your team for how you use Slack, email, meetings, your intranet, and other collaboration tools. Reach out to other teams and work to establish shared practices and regular rhythms for communication and knowledge management.

Be Proactive About Learning

The more your team knows about other functions, the more they will empathize with their colleagues and, frankly, the better they will be at their job. I mean it! When I learned more about sales and marketing, I became a better learning leader. So, host regular lunch-and-learns or other educational sessions to help your people better understand other functions.

Pool Training Resources

If you have a training budget and use it to plan professional development sessions for your team, consider which other teams might also benefit from what you are learning and invite them. Collaborate with other leaders to pool your budget and plan training topics that are relevant cross-functionally.

Share Goals and Capacity

During quarterly or annual planning, it’s easy to become fixated on your own team and forget that you’re part of a broader ecosystem. This can lead to conflicting goals and projects that rely on each other’s time and effort without considering overall capacity. Reach out to other leaders to align your priorities and ensure that any planned work fits within everyone’s capacity plans.

A Final Thought

Dealing with silos is something every company faces as it grows, but breaking them down is not an impossible task. As a middle manager, you have the power to drive positive change. Take the initiative to bridge gaps and foster stronger relationships between departments. By doing so, you'll create a more cohesive, efficient, and innovative workplace. So, go ahead and put these strategies into action—you’ll see your team and your company thrive!

Each week, we touch on an aspect of happiness and health at work, how to build it, and how to drive positive change in the workplace.

The Power of Spirituality

While attending Harvard’s Leadership & Happiness Symposium recently, I was intrigued to see a session on the agenda called Studying Happiness and Spirituality Across Multiple Levels of Scientific Analysis. I’ll admit that I sat through Dr. Lisa Miller’s talk with some degree of resistance—the automatic reaction of someone raised in a society that doesn’t always legitimize “spirituality.” But the talk, combined with recent experiences with synchronicity—a theme in Miller’s work—piqued my curiosity enough to read her book The Awakened Brain and I want to talk about it with you here.

What is spirituality?

Spirituality is a feeling of connection to something greater than ourselves that provides a sense of meaning and purpose in life. It is not synonymous with religiosity. In a groundbreaking empirical study, psychiatrist Kenneth Kendler showed that a person can be spiritual with or without being religious and vice versa. Spirituality can be grounded in a religious tradition, but it can also be rooted in nature, art, history, relationships, inner wisdom, the universe, and many other things. Synchronicity, for example, is a form of spirituality where we feel we’re receiving messages and meaning from a larger force that transcends ourselves—a cosmic connecting of dots, if you will.

Why does it matter?

Spirituality offers some seriously mind-blowing, science-backed benefits. Dr. Miller’s research shows that "the high-spiritual brain was thicker and stronger in exactly the same regions that weaken and wither in depressed brains" (The Awakened Brain). Those with high spirituality are less likely to be depressed or severely impacted by stressful events. And teens with high spirituality are up to 80% less likely to become addicted to or dependent on substances. In a world facing an extreme mental health crisis among younger generations, these findings are profoundly meaningful.

How might I tap into spirituality?

Dr. Miller shares that our capacity for spirituality is partly heritable (29%) and partly environmental (71%). This means we all have genetic encoding for it, and we can all influence our innate predisposition.

Remember, I’m a work in progress myself when it comes to spirituality, but here are some practices I’ve found helpful or want to explore further. I’d love to hear your thoughts and suggestions as well!

  • Reflect: Journal on key prompts like: What does spirituality mean to me? How was I raised to think (or not think) about spirituality? How do I define my purpose in life? When have I felt connected to something larger than myself? What did I notice today, and what might it reveal?
  • Experiment: Go for a walk in nature, visit the Grand Canyon, look at a work of art, or listen to a symphony. Go where there are many people gathered for a specific reason. Try new things that are said to invoke spirituality and then tap into yourself—how does it feel?
  • Be Mindful: Develop a practice of mindfulness or meditation that helps quiet your mind, connect with your inner self, and broaden your awareness of the world around you so that you may be open to moments of synchronicity.
  • Create: Pick a medium and make something (without too much planning) with spirituality in mind. Just start and see what comes out. Creativity can take us beyond ourselves.
  • Give: Help someone else for no other reason than to give and be kind. Volunteer, send a nice note, do something for your partner, colleague, or friend. How does it feel?
  • Learn: Read about the interconnectedness of nature and think about what it might mean for us as humans. Try The Hidden Life of Trees, Ways of Being, or Braiding Sweetgrass.

A Final Thought

Scientific evidence is mounting that tapping into spirituality has a positive impact on our happiness and health. I encourage you to read The Awakened Brain for more in-depth research than I’ve quoted here. Whether you consider yourself spiritual today or not, it’s worth reflecting on. And if you’re someone who might roll their eyes at the word “spirituality” (as I have been and to some degree still am), I encourage you to challenge that perspective. Connecting to something greater than yourself—whatever that might be—can be profoundly rewarding.

Each week, we collect a few great reads from a variety of disciplines to help you forge new connections and gain fresh perspectives.

Each week, we highlight some of the great things going on across the Starling community. Members can click on any of the links below to explore further.

  • On Wednesday, the Starling community celebrated its one-year anniversary! It’s been quite a year, with lots of twists and turns. As a collective, the community has hosted 40 and created a bounty of unique content across courses, micro lessons, and our newsletter. And we are just getting started!
  • On Tuesday, Christine, Tami, Rachel, and Jeff discussed best practices for managing change. The group suggested frequent communication, understanding the sheer amount of change that teams are often dealing with, and engaging change champions!
  • On Monday, we finalized our event calendar for this quarter. We’ve got some great events planned—both speaker events and social gatherings. You won’t want to miss our fireside chat with Brad Stulberg. If you’re not a Starling member yet, sign up now and get 40% off an annual membership just in time for Brad’s event!

Given that you made it this far, we felt you ought to be rewarded with one of Jeff’s Famous Dad Jokes:

I'll tell you what, silos are terrible for strategic thinking. They just can't help but get too grain-ular in their analysis!

Rachel & The Starling Team

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